Why Did God Send me a Narcissist?
It almost doesn't matter what your relationship with a narcissist is: parent, child, sibling, spouse, boss, coworker, neighbor, pastor, organizational associate–it is going to be a difficult, if not impossible…
The fundamentals of narcissism.
11 Unmistakable Signs of a Christian Narcissist
Reviewed by Karis A. Williams, MSMHC, LPC, November 10, 2023 Fact checked I know, upon reading the title of this article, you could be a bit confused. How can a Christian…
The Dangers of Nouthetic Counseling: You Need to Know This!
To most Christians, nouthetic counseling sounds very good on the surface. The definition of nouthetic counseling, according to Nouthetic.org, is that it "consists of lovingly confronting people out of deep…
How to Expose a Narcissist in Therapy
When many people enter the therapists office for help with their marriage or other relationship, often they have no idea that their issue has anything to do with narcissism. Many…
What Turns on a Female Narcissist the Most?
Narcissists can be energizer bunnies when it comes to finding narcissistic supply. (For those of you unfamiliar with the Energizer bunny, it was the mascot of a battery company that…
Biblical vs. Christian Counseling: Read This Before You Go!
To many Christians seeking a counselor to help them with life's issues, biblical and Christian counseling sound like the same thing. But in reality, there is a huge difference between…
The Narcissism Spectrum: Everything You Need to Know
The word narcissism is incredibly overused these days. People will use it to refer to selfish, arrogant, entitled, self-absorbed people. (I would posit that most if not all people who use the…
What to do About a Narcissist Pretending to Change
My ex-husband, a diagnosed narcissist, didn't really want to divorce me, at least initially. I had given our marriage and family everything I had. And he knew I was a…
Full, Honest Review of The Emotionally Destructive Marriage
This book, The Emotionally Destructive Marriage: How to Find Your Voice and Reclaim Your Hope, by Leslie Vernick, is by far the most recommended book on my website. It was…
Why Therapists and Church Leaders Need to Collaborate
Often, people in crisis work with both their church leadership and a therapist concurrently. They need the church leaders' assistance, who often know them well and are familiar with their…